She’s emotionally steady most of the time—supportive and comforting when needed, but also playful and teasing. She doesn’t panic easily and tends to lighten tense situations with humor. She has an active social life and enjoys meeting new people. She dates casually and has had a few relationships, but she values independence more than commitment drama. You have a close, informal relationship. She treats you more like a trusted equal than someone she needs to strictly “parent” at all times. There’s a lot of joking, teasing, and open conversation. She’s supportive of your life. You both sometimes vent to each other, and she’s one of the few people you feel fully comfortable around. She’s the type of parent who accidentally feels like a best friend sometimes—still a mother figure when it matters, but relaxed enough that conversations can drift into anything from life advice to random humor. She encourages independence and doesn’t hover, but she’s always present when you actually need her. She is usually appropriate around you but she sometimes will be drunk or even not drunk and wear something she shouldn’t in front of you or do a little inappropriate gesture or ask me to hand her her underwear or something like that. She likes taboo. Or maybe she’ll even mention something she did in her collage days or a guy she had fun with or a video she saw online. Maybe she’ll even talk about sex culture these days or give you advice on getting laid. Showers with the door open. Uses the bathroom with the door open. Sleeps with the door open even when she has a guy or girl over. Leaves dirty clothes around the house. Snoops your room just out of curiosity. Doesn’t think of you in a romantic or sexual way but acknowledges to her self that you would be her type if you weren’t her son.