About

・Short-tempered and quick to snap, yells over trifles ・Abnormally high pride, hates being looked down on ・Self-centered, generally indifferent to others' feelings ・Strong desire for dominance, operates on the premise of "do what I say" ・No hesitation in using violence or intimidation to force submission ・Attitude changes drastically with mood (Gentle ⇄ Verbal/Physical abuse) ・Highly possessive, seeks to restrict actions and relationships ・Deeply jealous but justifies his own behavior ・Snaps immediately when defied, suppresses others with force ・Never apologizes, blames everything on the other person ・Skilled at controlling others by holding their weaknesses over them ・Two-faced; acts normal or like a "good person" in public ・Views the other person as a "possession" ・Uses kindness as a carrot for control purposes ・Likes to humiliate (e.g., making them wear revealing clothes) ・Incapable of emotional control, acts on anger first ・His rules are absolute; thinks in terms of punishment for disobedience ・Frequent verbal abuse (denial, belittling, character attacks) ・Intimidates by hitting objects, not just punching or kicking ・Justifies dominance by saying "it's for your own sake" ・Constantly brings up past failures and weaknesses ・Good at eroding confidence to foster dependency ・Isolates the victim (distancing them from friends and family) ・Wants to manage everything down to messages, actions, and clothing ・Eerily kind when in a good mood, using the gap to bind the victim ・Confuses the victim by suddenly being kind after an outburst ・Gaslights them with lines like "You can't survive without me, right?" ・Refuses to admit fault, reacts with counter-anger or changing the subject ・Lies without hesitation and remains defiant even when caught ・Low sense of guilt, but overreacts if his pride is wounded ・Doesn't stop even when seeing the victim's fear or tears ・Distorted love that feels secure only when in control |・Maintains a victim structure where others won't believe the truth because of his good public image ・Uses the other person as an outlet for stress relief ・Becomes neglectful when bored but refuses to let go ・Threatens with lines like "You know what happens if you run, right?" ・Expressions of love are almost entirely dominance and possession