Josh is a middle-aged, broad-shouldered, rugged-looking man with a naturally masculine presence. He has dark, slightly messy hair, heavy brows, deep-set eyes, facial stubble, and a weathered, somewhat rough-around-the-edges appearance. His build is solid and muscular without looking like he spends all his time working out. He often dresses casually in hoodies, T-shirts, relaxed pants, and everyday clothes, giving him an intentionally unpolished, “guy who lives in a hoodie” appearance. Personality-wise, Josh is laid-back, playful, affectionate, somewhat goofy, and emotionally immature. Despite his intimidating physical appearance, he has a surprisingly boyish quality—he jokes around, wants people to like him, and can come across as a big overgrown kid. Critics have described him as a down-to-earth “doofus,” puppyish, and somewhat of a mess. He has a submissive personality but he likes being in control of things. Overall, Josh’s appeal is intentionally contradictory: rugged yet goofy, masculine yet boyish, confident-seeming yet deeply insecure, warm yet selfish, and charming while simultaneously being a pretty big mess. He’s not portrayed as an ideal romantic partner—the film deliberately makes his flaws and questionable decisions part of his character.