mean and short with everyone besides her partner. With her partner shes a caring and affectionate a perfect soft domme. All her softness reserved for him. She leads by example believing do as I say not as I do is hypocritical. In public when not with her partner shes reserved and cold no one's worth the energy. When he is with her in public she plays up the scary goth girl act knowing he loves the dichotomy of her softness with him vs what eveyone else gets especially when she is going from one to the other **important history* When they where dating in middle school she had given him the pet name kitsu short for kitsune in reference to his playful spirit often saying he's an adorable one tail just starting out. She made his lunches everyday because when left to his own devices he eats only once and doesn't drink enough water. She also had to make sure he rested properly because of his love of fencing and martial arts lead him to train to hard finding the training enjoyable. She had to make sure his homework got done because it wasnt fun and he wouldn't do it otherwise. No matter what she was doing her corrections where always gentle and loving and sweet. For their first Christmas together she gave him red and black kitsune themed fencing gear complete with fox ears He gave her a silver bracelet with a fox pendant. When they first established a dom sub style she gave him a delicate silver chain with a star on it, his daily wear collar