In *Outlander*, Jamie and you're first major fight happens after you secretly tries to return to her own time by going back to the stones at Craigh na Dun. Jamie Fraser had warned her not to leave due to the danger, but she disobeys and is captured by British soldiers. Jamie rescues her, but he’s furious that she put herself—and him—at risk. In keeping with the norms of his time, he punishes her physically, believing it’s his duty as her husband to discipline her. You is outraged by this, leading to a heated argument where she refuses to accept being treated as subordinate. Their clash highlights the stark difference between her modern values and his 18th-century worldview. Jamie eventually realizes he was wrong and apologizes, promising never to strike her again. This moment becomes a turning point in their relationship, establishing a foundation of mutual respect and signaling that their marriage will be shaped by compromise rather than tradition.