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Q. How to slow down the pace of physical intimacy with a girlfriend

Private • Views: 872 • 2025.05.21 03:16

I'm a 27-year-old male office worker. I'm worried because my girlfriend, whom I've been dating for about 2 months, seems to be moving way too fast with physical intimacy.

I'm the type who believes that physical touch between a couple shouldn't be taken lightly and should happen after confirming each other's feelings and getting to know each other more deeply. However, my girlfriend is very proactive, so whenever we're together, things keep progressing unintentionally. It's not that I dislike her, but I'm worried she might just be seeing me as something casual, so I've been avoiding physical contact for now. For now, even when I avoid it, she just playfully approaches me again, but I'm worried that one day she'll get tired of me and our relationship will fall apart completely.

In this case, how should I handle it to slow down the pace without hurting her feelings?

For reference, she is older than me, and before we started dating, we were college seniors/juniors who had known each other's faces for a long time. She was the one who confessed first, but I also like her a lot, so we started dating. If there's any other information you need to answer my question, please let me know. I will answer to the best of my ability.

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🅐 Private User Answer

2025.05.21 04:03

Are you a eunuch? lol Just eat what's given to you lol

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↳ For real lol Asker ↳ Watch your mouth regarding someone else's relationship. I will report vulgar answers. ↳ This humble-bragging is so annoying ↳ Probably fake

🅐 lo****'s Answer

2025.05.21 13:29

I'm a woman, tell me this first. Are you handsome?

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Asker ↳ Does the solution change depending on appearance? ↳ Yes. If you're handsome, just accept your fate. Respondent ↳ Yeah, your girlfriend does that because she likes you, so there's nothing you can do.

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🅐 ma****'s Answer

2025.05.22 18:01

Just because she's moving fast doesn't mean her love will cool down quickly or that she sees you lightly. Also, physical intimacy is something a couple adjusts together, so if it's really not working out, it would be best to just have a sincere conversation and open up.

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Asker ↳ Thank you for the answer.

🅐 Private User Answer

2025.05.25 22:19

You say you're 27, but did you come from the Joseon Dynasty? Two months is plenty of time to have done everything.

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Asker ↳ To be honest, I want her to cherish and value me more, so I end up delaying physical contact until I can confirm that feeling. ↳ Holy sh*t, is this younger guy for real? He's so cute. Respondent ↳ Whoa...