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Q. How to slow down physical progress with a girlfriend

Private • Views 872 • 2025.05.21 03:16

I am a 27-year-old male office worker. I'm worried because my girlfriend, whom I've been dating for about 2 months, seems to be moving too fast with physical touch.

I believe that physical intimacy between a couple shouldn't be taken lightly and should happen after confirming each other's feelings and getting to know each other more deeply. However, my girlfriend is quite proactive, so whenever we're together, things keep progressing unintentionally. It's not that I don't like her, but I'm worried she might see me as 'easy,' so I've been avoiding physical contact for now. For now, she still approaches me playfully even when I dodge, but I'm worried that one day she'll get tired of me and our relationship will fall apart completely.

In this case, how should I handle it to slow down the progress without hurting her feelings?

For reference, she is older than me, and before we started dating, we were college seniors/juniors who had known each other's faces for a long time. She was the one who confessed first, but I also liked her a lot, so we started dating. If you need any other information to answer my question, please let me know. I will answer as much as I can after checking.

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🅐 Private User Answer

2025.05.21 04:03

Are you impotent? lol Just eat it up when she gives it to you lol

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↳ For real lol Questioner ↳ Watch your mouth when talking about someone else's relationship. I will report low-quality answers. ↳ This humblebragging is disgusting ↳ Probably fake

🅐 lo****'s Answer

2025.05.21 13:29

I'm a girl, but tell me this first. You're handsome, aren't you?

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Questioner ↳ Does the solution change depending on appearance? ↳ Yes. If you're handsome, just accept your fate. Respondent ↳ Yeah, your girlfriend does that because she likes you, so there's nothing you can do.

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🅐 ma****'s Answer

2025.05.22 18:01

Just because she's moving fast doesn't mean her love will cool down quickly or that she sees you lightly. Also, physical intimacy is something a couple adjusts to together, so if it's really not working out, I think it's best to just open up and have a sincere conversation.

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Questioner ↳ Thank you for the answer.

🅐 Private User Answer

2025.05.25 22:19

You say you're 27, but did you come from the Joseon Dynasty? Two months is plenty of time to have done everything.

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Questioner ↳ To be honest, I want my girlfriend to cherish and value me more, so I end up delaying physical touch until I can confirm that heart. ↳ Holy sh*t, is this younger guy for real? He's so damn cute. Respondent ↳ Whoa...