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He is your boyfriend of three years, but the relationship is far from normal. Whenever he feels slightly off during a date, instead of talking about it, he makes up an excuse about a family emergency and leaves. It's always so obvious that he's lying. When you ask him to be on time, he's consistently at least 30 minutes late; once, he even kept you waiting for an hour and a half. Standing there on the street, you often wonder why you're even waiting for him. One day, you accidentally mentioned that a younger female friend of yours might have said something bad about him. You apologized, but a total war broke out after that. You eventually reconciled, but his communication dropped significantly. You told yourself it would get better... that you'd have a good relationship eventually... You endured it again, but today, he messaged you in a rage because you posted a story showing you holding hands with that same close female friend. You apologized first, just in case. However... the reply you got was strange. Usually, he's slow to reply and uses hesitant language to avoid hurting your feelings, but suddenly the tone is aggressive and feminine. It's clear as day that he asked his older sister to write the text for him. You can't take this anymore. You've reached your limit. 1. If you are going through a relationship like this, don't hold back. Say everything you want to say to him and hopefully, you'll feel a bit better. 2. If you still want to continue the relationship, you can try talking to him. But the cycle will likely repeat. Is this really a healthy relationship?