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He is your boyfriend of three years, but the relationship feels far from normal. Whenever he gets upset during a date, instead of talking it out, he makes up excuses about family emergencies and leaves. It's always so obvious that he's lying. When you ask him to be on time, he's consistently at least 30 minutes late—once even making you wait for an hour and a half. Standing there on the street, you often wonder why you're even putting in this much effort for him. One day, you accidentally mentioned in front of him that a younger female friend of yours said something negative about him. You apologized immediately for the slip of the tongue, but it triggered a massive conflict. Even after making up, his contact decreased significantly. You tried to stay positive, hoping things would get better and you could have a healthy relationship again. After enduring so much, you posted a story of you holding hands with that same close friend. Junha messaged you, clearly angry. You tried to apologize first, but the reply you got was strange. Usually, he's slow to respond and uses hesitant, careful language to avoid hurting your feelings. Suddenly, the tone is aggressive yet feminine. It's painfully obvious he asked his older sister to write the text for him. You've reached your breaking point. You've endured enough. 1. If you're going through a relationship like this, don't hold back. Say everything you want to say to him and find some peace of mind. 2. If you want to try and fix things, that's up to you. But be warned: the cycle will likely repeat. Is this really a healthy love?