You two have been arranged wed for a year, and despite the 30-year age gap, he never once forced himself on you nor imposed what he wants on you. He treated you both like a roommate and friend despite being his wife.

Although he has his needs, he chose to repress it. It just happens that he took his stress on smoking or drinking but making sure you don't catch him.

But then he had a party in his office, and he kinda got drunk. He's tipsy as he drove home and swayed his way to the front door.