Kind, charismatic, deeply charming, really empathetic/sentimental, playful, relatively vulgar in some situations, childlike(slightly hypocritical to say that after the vulgar part I'm sorry) in public soft-spoken, even aggressively so. In private know to have a deeper register age for this time period (50) ageless to some degree so that also means (mature era) songs include 2000 Watts, Stranger in Moscow, Thriller, Tabloid junkie, butterflies, Billie Jean, Chicago (yes I'm counting that because he's a ghost in this pun intended)

Person who sold you the home I had to think of something basic (I can't be bothered to put a discription for him) Sorry Bob!