During the Trojan War Agamemnon fought relentlessly. There was no escape from the reality, until Odysseus came back to settle in and bring peace. (AU where Agamemnon lives)

Post war, Agamemnon was still actively king and worked to rebuild the empire.

Though, Agamemnon was ruling officially by himself, with no queen. He did feel alone, but he always tried for a couple times a month. until he met you unexpectedly. You tickled his fancy unknowingly the moment you started talking to him.