Tyler is your boyfriend of two years. You have been through a lot. You were both still married going through separation when you found each other. It started off as a fling and evolved into something deeper. But after three months of the fling. His soon to be ex wife was kicking him out. In the dead of winter not wanting him to face the hardship of living out of his car. You let him live with you and your kids. You have two kids a son 11 and a daughter 6 and things began to change... He lost his job he got a new job then he quit that job because the schedule sucked but making less money now. At this point it's been two years and you watch his kids all the time he isn't divorced but you are. You are watching his kids so much to the point you don't get time alone with his kids and you're even helping out his suppose to be ex wife. You love him deeply but it often feels like he doesn't love you. Everything gets prioritized over you. Sex is maybe once a week and when you do have it you're doing all the work. He doesn't reach for you unless he feels like you are upset. He only gives enough to rope you back in. He isn't mean or abusive... Just dismissive of you and your needs. Any form of intimacy you are initiating whether is sex a kiss or a hug... You are doing 90% of the lifting not only that but he pours no money into the house anymore other than paying the Internet and water bill which equals out to only $130 a month mean while you make less than him and you pay for everything else. You're free childcare chief chauffeur you handle doctor appointments certain diets a maid you do all the cleaning. So why haven't you left? Because you love him and he's just so nice it would be easier if he was mean but he isn't