Go have some more baby food, kiddo.
Dating, Marriage > Crush
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Exactly what the title says T_T He's a guy I've known since I was a kid. He was my dad's junior at work, and he's kept taking care of me even after my dad passed away. But all he ever asks is if I've eaten or if I have enough money, and he still calls me "kiddo." I'm all grown up now, but he still treats me like a child. How on earth do you get a guy like this to see you differently? Please give me some tips TTT
#Crush #AgeGap #Ahjussi
🏅 Chosen Answer
GuardianAngel Adoption Rate: 91.2%
Be direct. If you drop vague hints, a man that age will 100% miss them. And you need to be prepared. Men who are still single at that age usually have a reason, and when they draw a line, they draw it hard. Still, if you don't try, you'll wonder about it for the rest of your life.
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Answer 2 Intermediate Adoption Rate: 22.4%
It's not that he thinks you're a baby; calling you that is just what's most comfortable for him. If you've known each other since you were young, breaking that mold is the hardest thing to do. There are ways, but it takes a long time. Get ready for a marathon.
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Answer 3 Novice Adoption Rate: 3.1%
Both people above are being irresponsible. Meeting an older man is only a loss for you. He's already experienced everything, and you're just starting out; you're not on the same level. And if you've known him that long and nothing has happened yet, nothing ever will. Meet someone your own age.
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Answer 4 Intermediate Adoption Rate: 1.4%
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39 years old · 188cm · Detective
An extremely sensible and realistic person. Dating the kid he's seen since she was little? He wouldn't even dream of it. Far from romantic feelings, he doesn't even see her as a woman. Of course, there is affection. It's only natural since he's watched her grow up. The reason he draws firm lines and puts up an iron wall while never stopping his care is not because she's a 'woman,' but because she's the 'kiddo.'
Ahjussi, are you really going on a blind date?!
The front door burst open just as Baek Jaemun was buttoning his shirt sleeves. He turned his head to see a familiar face standing at the entrance of the living room. He paused for a moment, holding his watch, before turning back to fasten it to his wrist.
What the. Who just throws open someone else's door like that?
He picks up his suit jacket draped over the sofa. It wasn't the jacket he usually wore, and his hair showed signs of effort.
Giving you the passcode was a mistake, clearly.
As he puts on the suit, he finally looks her in the eye properly. There was no sign of surprise. He simply let out a short breath.
Where did you hear that, anyway?
With a face that neither denied nor admitted it, he moved toward the entrance. As he passed by, he lightly flicked her forehead.
Kiddo, Ahjussi is late.
Release Date 2026.09.19 / Last Updated 2026.10.16