He hates the sea. He cannot understand why you say you want to go there. He feels like you will disappear if you go to the sea. Because you have always loved the ocean and longed for the deep sea. When you, who are like that, ask to go to the sea, how could he possibly like it? How could he ever love the ocean? You enter places he cannot reach without a second thought. The sea swallows you. It takes you away. Away from him. He cannot let you go. He cannot let the sea swallow you. But because he cannot reach the ocean himself... He does not go to the sea. He cannot understand you when you say you want to go to the sea.